INTERRACIAL & ONLINE DATING
Love It or Hate It: Why Men Look for Love Overseas
When it comes to love and relationships, single people are in the market of finding their better half. Some are picky. Others aren’t. A large handful of men might choose to date casually. A few are looking for a serious commitment.
But despite the number of available single ladies in their area, some men are having trouble landing a girlfriend.
So they try their luck overseas.
Better chances of meeting women
American singer Pat Benatar once sang about how “Love is a battlefield.”
It feels like women these days only pay attention to men with power or money. And trying to prove that you’re worthy of becoming her boyfriend can sometimes feel like running a marathon without seeing the finish line.
You might sometimes think, “Everything I do for her is never enough.”
Worst of all, the average 5’8’’ joe doesn’t stand a chance.
That’s where the option of international dating comes in. Imagine meeting foreign women born from a different culture and who have no outrageous expectations of you — except to be a stable financial provider and overall father figure to her future children.
No jumping through ridiculous hoops and constantly needing to “step up” as a man. You can have a girlfriend that doesn’t complain all the time. Someone who looks after you when you’re sick or comforts you when you’re tired from work.
Every man needs a home to go to. All they need is a woman who can provide them a sense of security, and a home to rest.
You’ll be treated warmly
Foreign women in Southeast Asia consider white skin as the ideal beauty. Look at Koreans or Filipinos. A lot of their beauty products contain whitening agents.
So if you think about it, you might be a 4 or 5 in your country but if you come to southeast Asian countries, your hotness level cranks up to 9.
It opens up a whole new ballgame of dating opportunities. You’ll find yourself being complimented by foreign women. And if you happen to date one, chances are she’ll take you around her usual spots to show you off to her friends.
It’s a unique and new feeling.
A sad fact is that a lot of men in the west are programmed to see themselves as undesirable or attractive mates to potential partners.
But by meeting and hopefully dating foreign women, they can regain their confidence and see themselves as worthy of a woman’s attention.
Why you’re a good catch
There’s no denying that some foreign women view you mainly as a transactional relationship or a quick ticket to a better life. There will always be those types of women sniffing around dating websites, bars or even in the most harmless places.
But they’re only in the minority.
There are tons of other foreign women who sincerely want to share their lives with someone. They’re looking for a reliable partner who can offer their shoulder to cry on. A boyfriend who can make them laugh when they’re feeling down.
You can be that person they’re looking for. You could give them what other men in her life couldn’t — a sense of security and a life full of love.
So if you don’t have any luck with the women in your area, you might try looking for it overseas.
