RELATIONSHIP ADVICE
The Wonders of a Lowkey Relationship
The idea of a “lowkey” relationship has been the talk of the media recently.
Basically, it is when one gets romantically linked and it is kept private. It’s important to acknowledge that the relationship is not considered a secret affair, but the couples just choose to keep their lives away from the public eye. In short: It’s not necessarily hidden.
A big way to grasp this concept is to understand why these couples choose to keep their relationship this way. Keeping it lowkey can offer several good benefits in keeping up with the bond’s dynamic.
Let’s go over the specifics:
It’s Free From Pressure
When you are free from different opinions and expectations, the relationship develops at its own pace. It keeps you away from people who are too critical or are excessively concerned about your life. This is favorable for those who are still in their early dating phase, where they are still getting to know each other.
This is also great for those who want to keep things flexible. But, this doesn’t imply that you aren’t setting boundaries. It’s still important to discuss your negotiables, especially in terms of public displays of affection and meeting your social circles. As long as you are both cool and comfortable.
It Provides a Sense of Privacy
Being away from all the fuss makes things more special as you focus more on what matters and share moments just between the two of you. This creates more intimacy and less stressful situations. With the mutual desire for privacy, you and your partner get to choose who gets around your orbit.
You believe that doing things for clout and public validation isn’t the healthiest way to gain acceptance. If you truly like your partner, you won’t let the hype and number of social media interactions determine your relationship.
It Provides a Sense of Individuality
It’s likely that you may lose yourself in a relationship. Still, a lowkey relationship helps maintain your individuality as you don’t let the public eye navigate the wheels of your lives. You get to maintain separate identities in your private bubble such as having time for leisure and friends outside the relationship, and still enjoy the perks of your romantic connection.
So how can you efficiently endure a lowkey relationship?
Have Patience
Having this kind of relationship more often means taking things slow, so allow your relationship to grow at its own pace and don’t rush it. Love isn’t like in the movies or what the media paints with dramatic lights. Beautiful things take time.
Keep Your Balance
Just because you are in a relationship, it doesn’t mean you set aside your independence. Make sure you are still doing the things you enjoy while maintaining shared experiences with your partner.
Keep Watch for Red Flags
If you notice that your partner is being suspicious, like intentionally hiding your relationship, especially from his family and friends, it’s best if you openly discuss this as it could be a sign of a red flag. A lowkey relationship doesn’t mean you are fully under wraps.
Check-in With Each Other
Make certain you are still on the same page by checking in with each other. Do you still want this type of arrangement? Are you getting more serious? Are you ready to welcome changes and adjustments?
A lowkey relationship is a beautiful way of exploring a connection with another person. Have confidence in expressing your intentions to guarantee your relationship will work out well.
References:
Shumway, Grady. 2024. “What Is a Low Key Relationship? Reasons, Signs and Benefits.” Marriage.com.
https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/low-key-relationship/#:~:text=A%20low%2Dkey%20relationship%20means,Simple
