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Single No More! How To Get A Filipina Girlfriend
“If you’re single and lonely, you might die.”
An overly gross exaggeration if I ever saw one.
According to research, loneliness can kill you. A lonely brain is restless and triggers “hyper-vigilance,” which is its way of telling you that it’s on the lookout for social threats. This puts you on the defensive. It makes you more reactive to negative events and thus, makes you more stressed.
To put it mildly, it isn’t the fact that you’re single that could cause you your demise. It’s the loneliness itself. Because loneliness gives way to depressive thoughts and that —
That needs to change.
The world is now hyper aware of depression and mental health. We have been making strides on improving mental health, promoting self-care and putting more emphasis on self-love. All it takes is a single triggering event, a word or a gesture and all that effort comes crashing down.
To some, being single is a power move. To others who are declining in age, it’s something else entirely. It is anxiety, it is fear and it is a ticking clock. At its worst, it gives way to desperation. So it doesn’t come as a surprise when some people make hasty decisions, especially when choosing a lifetime partner.
A Hasty yet Smart Move
Here is a way to alleviate loneliness that has less chance of it backfiring on you: joining a Singles Tour.
Solving the loneliness problem can come in many forms. One piece of advice I always tell my clients is that if they can’t find the cure to their loneliness where they are, they should go looking overseas.
American men have always had this fascination for foreign women, especially those with exotic features. Their preferences differ from one another but there is a large percentage of them who desire marrying a Filipina.
You can see where I’m going with this right?
Why Filipinas?
Again, no one argues when the reason is simply preference. But most of the time, the winning factors below are usually the reason why they are the most desirable brides.
Filipinas are smart
In the Philippines, education is highly valued as essential. Parents are very strict with their children when it comes to their college education, therefore they value it more than you think. In the Philippines, when someone completes a course, the family will do more than just celebrate.
As a result, you can expect a lot of the Filipinas you meet to be intellectually equal to you. Granted, not every woman is fortunate enough to attend college. Those who didn’t, on the other hand, are still formidable.
Filipinas are religious and traditional
Because the Philippines is a Catholic country, Christians and Catholics make up the majority of the population. A typical Filipina is religiously devout, yet she will not try as hard to convert you if your religions are conflicting. However, you should be aware that her thinking process was affected by her upbringing in a Catholic home.
Her values, morals and upbringing are there in the little things she does. Because the Catholic faith teaches it, she will demand faithfulness in marriage. She will be a perfect example of a wife and a mother because she grew up being taught how to be wife-material. She will take care of her family because her own family took care of her.
Filipinas are natural homemakers
Filipinos place a high value on their families and consider them to be their moral support. This is why, in today’s Filipino community, filial piety is one of the most highly appreciated ingrained values.
So, if you marry a Filipina, you will be family. And because family comes first for a Filipina, you become her top priority
Filipinas take pride in looking after their families. They’re also fantastic wives and mothers. Filipino mothers are typically praised for their perseverance, and they are deserving of such praise. After all, balancing your career and personal life at the same time isn’t exactly a walk in the park for some people.
Filipinas are committed
Expect your Filipina girlfriend to rapidly woo you into a long-term relationship. It’s unusual for them to prolong a relationship that doesn’t appear to be progressing. Most of them aren’t hesitant to question you straight out how your relationship is going if she feels it’s become stale.
Bottom line: When a Filipinas loves, she loves hard. She’s going to be a little clingy and a little too doting, but that’s to be expected from a woman who genuinely cares about you. Remember that Filipinas enjoy looking after others, especially those they care about.
Single No More
It doesn’t matter what your circumstances are, no one is ever too late to seek their happiness. Loneliness happens to everyone, yes, but if you just let it sit then it’s a problem.
You deserve a chance at love. Take the leap and give yourself the chance to meet the girl of your dreams.
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