DATING
Collaborative Playlist | A Present-Day Love Language
Physical touch, words of affirmation, giving gifts, quality time, and acts of service are the common five love languages we’ve come to know, but did you know that sharing music can be a love language, too?
Music has often been the backbone of some of the most profound relationships, and it’s because of the intimacy it offers when you share it with a loved one. With a collaborative playlist now made possible by Spotify and Apple Music, you get to create a unique mix of cherry-picked songs that channel your affection to a love interest where they, too, can add songs!
It goes without saying that music has the powerful ability to describe the indescribable that plain essays don’t have. By making a playlist, one plucks up the courage to express their emotions even if they deem it difficult.
I know that making a playlist can be time-consuming as you need to be thoughtful and dedicated to it to show your appreciation, but it’s an art form that has always been loved by many and I have no doubts your lover will, too!
What Makes It Special?
Are you nearing your anniversary? Or you’re still going through the anxiety nerves in confessing? Let me help you by giving you good reasons to sit down and start curating a collaborative playlist now:
You Are Sharing a Part of Yourself
When you make a collaborative playlist, you have the option to share it privately with one or more people. When you share a part of yourself with someone through songs, there is excitement and intimacy. Plus it’s even made easier now since you can just download an app and send a link that leads to the playlist.
It Shows That You’ve Paid Attention
In making a playlist, you don’t just randomly throw songs in there. You are making an effort to place each song on the list based on your understanding of the other person and how much their presence has impacted you. You could include songs from their favorite artists that you think perfectly fit, too.
It Strengthens the Relationship
Sharing songs that remind them of your favorite moments together provides nostalgia, which brings a sense of belonging and meaning. This is especially true when you both find common ground in music. It amplifies your emotional connection.
It Gives Comfort
Music makes people feel understood and in good company regardless if it is a sad day or a happy day. It helps in shifting one’s outlook positively. With the song lyrics chiming with your encounters and feelings, it’s like having a security blanket whether the listener is working, cooking, driving, studying, etc.
It Increases Your Success in Dating
Instead of hitting them with some pickup lines, you can serenade them with a playlist where they are also free to add songs. A collaborative playlist makes your approach more magical which could help your relationship flourish. Who knows? You might even get that sweet “yes” through a song they added!
But It’s Not the Be-All-End-All of Compatibility
While curating a collaborative playlist is an excellent idea, it must also come alongside shared values, open and honest communication, and commitment which, when combined, help make a greater and lasting connection.
Music can only serve as the bridge to a love that is heartfelt; your relationship’s longevity still depends on how both of you handle every circumstance life throws.
